I've been detecting for just over a year and have luckily got a couple of permissions that just fell into my lap through friends but I'm struggling to pluck up the courage to approach strangers.
I like finding out about the history of finds and can't really see the obsession with only wanting to find hammered coins and everything else is junk but I suppose everyone is different.
I use a Nox 800 but started with a Dr Otek then moved on to a Simplex, which my mate now has, and got addicted VERY quickly.
I've luckily been able to join a club so get to go different places most weekends and they've just announced their rally for next year so exciting time.
Oh and I'm middle aged, rapidly approaching old age but still moan about the old people in the supermarket until I realise they are probably younger than me.

Also mad dog lady that does agility and hoopers with them.
Paula